I am not sure what to make of modern men. The younger gents I meet at London escorts seem to have completely lost their get up and go, and they do not turn me on at all. They seem to have become almost non sexual, and there is little wonder why they are having such a hard time establishing relationships. Most girls I know, would probably not be interested in dating modern men at all. It does not matter what you say, a girl still likes a man to be a man.
What has happened? I think that a lot of men have lost the confidence in being men, and that they struggle to find their true masculine identity. Today, it seems very much that women walk all over men, and then chuck them to one side. I don’t think it has happened to the younger gents I date at London escorts, but it has certainly happened to many of the senior gents I have met at London escorts. They seem to be out on a limb, and may not even know, how life works these days.
Does life work differently? Yes, I do think that life works very differently these days. Women seem to have become the aggressors, and if you like, have developed real killer instinct. I have worked with a couple of girls at another London escorts service, who eventually moved on to become gold diggers and ended up taking a couple of guys for as much as they could. I am not going to pretend that the girls did not do well out of it. They truly did and made a lot of money from their relationships.
This is the sort of thing that has always gone on to a certain extent, but I think that women are doing it even more so now. Some girls clearly join London escorts for everything that they can get out of it, and I really don’t know what to say about that. Sure, we all want to make money out of any job that we are doing, but should we take advantage of men. I think that so many younger guys are afraid to say no, and this is the result of them not having enough confidence to deal with modern day women.
It is nice when a man takes charge, but for that to work, he has to be confident. I seldom meet confident men at London escorts these days. Even some of the most successful gents I date at the agency are not really what I call confident. There is no way that I would allow a man to be abusive to me or anything like that, but at the same time, I am not happy to put up with a man who does not know what he wants. They seem to be everywhere these days, and there is little wonder that women are taking charge or the lead. Is that a good thing? I am not sure if it is, and I think we need to step back, and review our modern day relationships before we all end up living as singles.